Video with contributions from people around the world (but mostly from Canada and the U.S.) describing how we connect with each other. There is broad agreement that the most important thing (as Alan Levine says) is to find something that’s comfortable, that’s meaningful, and ultimately, that’s personal.
http://www.darcynorman.net/2009/11/24/how-do-you-connect-to-people-online-the-video/